Letting Go

2019 has been a roller coaster ride for me - with excitement and bliss, as well as turmoil physically, mentally and emotionally. Before I know it, it's already mid of January 2020!

I have lots of reflection on how I could have done better, how things could have been if I were to do that and not this. Whatever it is, life is a learning journey. Grateful to many things that happened that allowed me to learn. Grateful to the people that i have met and have been with.

Here are one key learning that I have: Learn to let go - when things are not going your way and becomes difficult, most of us will either take the "fight" or "flight" mode. I have learnt to embrace the feelings that I may be feeling, accept it and thereby maintaining control. Most importantly, we need to know what is going on within us - is there any self-blame? Will self-blame help the situation? What to learn from the situation?

Here's an article another leadership - https://www.lollydaskal.com/leadership/leadership-acceptance-letting-go-controls/.

Before we can lead others, how can we lead from within? When we are accepting the situations or our own feelings rather than resisting, we are actually opening ourselves to profound new possibilities.

Do mmbrace and accept the negative feelings, but at the same time allow ourselves to learn from them and look forward to better outcomes in the future by making steps to improve!

If 2020 has to be another roller coaster ride, let me be more prepared & get to enjoy the ride even more.

Thanks 2019, & welcome 2020. Have a great year ahead everyone!